Nobody deserves everything to know about you.

Hello folks. Everyone's expectation of friendship and relationship are too much these days. In all these years I have learned few things and these things make me the most peaceful person in friendships and relationships. Just because you found someone whom you call best friend/partner that doesn't they should know everything about you. They should find things about you by spending time you. Every time I find new people they start to share things about them and just because someone listen that doesn't mean you have to tell them everything about you. There should be some mystery in every relationship. I share certain things with few friends and then other things with other friends. From my POV I shared everything but no one knows everything about me. Trust me this is so much better. I used to tell everything about me few years ago but now it's better to not share everything. I also think there are few things that no one should know. Not even partners just for the sake of your relationship don't share everything. There are few girls I friend-zoned because I staying away from relationship and I'm genuinely happy for them and I sometimes talk to them. Their boyfriends know that they had crush on me. Now if they tell their boyfriends that they talked to me it's gonna make them feel bad for no reason. I never crossed lines with my friends who are in relationship. They are happy and I happy for them. You should hide things from the people you love to protect them maybe the example is not that good but I'm sure you'll get it what I mean. I'm not saying you should cheat and then hide it. I'm only referring to things that happened in past and not everyone deserves to know. I have seen people sharing things and regretting after breakups or friends used those things against them. We all wear masks, some more than others. Most of you might not agree with me but it works for me and might not work for you. Not everything works for everyone.