Flat in city or Villa in the outskirts? Why and why not?

I like flat in the middle of the city (BH/JH), wife likes Villa in back of beyond (Tellapur, etc.). I like the idea of a villa and the space but can't afford one in the city and I definitely don't want to move to Tellapur where there's nothing around in terms of restaurants, bars, retail, etc. No kids. Anyone in the same predicament? First world problems for sure but I'd love to hear any inputs from y'all. Thank you!