Someone told me your state is only famous for honour killing and deehat

We were debating about state matrices and of course he can't come up in any development parameter so, then he started talking about cases like honour killing and khap, deehat culture and what not even though they are almost zero in most of part of our state but still, can't counter because there are still some issues of honour killing (although its more in Rajasthan but its not something we should compare like whose better or worse in ranking). those word are really stuck in brain, while i'm sleeping right now, i did some search and those cases are not that rare. Do you think we will be able to get away with thes kind of stuff soon? what your opinion about it? do correct me if i'm wrong somewhere.