Not Generalising in anyway or Hate against any Gender but why everyone i see ,cheats?

M26, I feel very insecure about future , Based on multiple experiences and observing my Friends, Colleagues or even people is general, what is up with you guys? Where are we Heading, every other person is lying/cheating/micro-cheating on their partner? Also why do they get in denial or blameshift when they get caught? I feel out of place at my workplace or in general due to the different ideology or clash of it just because I promote traditional values of a healthy partner/marriage/relationship. What should I do to feel accepted and be social amongst these people? or is it the people pleaser in me taking over?