Why it so hard for some people to let girls just enjoy using Reddit?

As usual and I’m sure almost all the women here have experienced this. What’s this you ask? A girl existing on Reddit and getting random dms from guys who you just want to know “how’s you?” All the damn time and I’m sure some girls have gotten even worse dms. The worst part is that after telling them no or asking them why do they want to know all this they start being rude. So I’m “conservative Indian girl” if I don’t want to talk to random people on Reddit? Wow Please please leave us alone, not interested in getting these messages at all.