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19F, from a Muslim Family, Facing Marriage Pressure and Struggling to Find Independence
Hi everyone, I’m a 19-year-old female from a conservative Muslim family. I’m currently living away from home while completing my bachelor’s degree and staying in a hostel. I’m just 4 months away from graduating, but my parents are pressuring me to come back home so they can arrange my marriage as they're against me studying further. I don’t want to go back or get married right now. I’ve always wanted to be independent, pursue a career, and continue my education with a master’s degree. However, my parents don’t understand this, and I feel hopeless because I’m stuck between their expectations and my dreams. I don’t know how to tell them I want to stay here, find a job (preferably remote), so I can continue my education. It feels like going back home would mean giving up everything I’ve worked for, and that thought is incredibly stressful and depressing. If anyone has been in a similar situation or has advice on how I can navigate this, I would really appreciate it. I've tried convincing my parents but they won't listen. How do I secure a job right after graduating to support myself? Will i even? Thank you for taking the time to read this. I’m really overwhelmed and would appreciate any guidance or support.2
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