Are people really that Alienated and isolated in Chandigarh

Its just a shocker for me honestly, everyday i come here and see a million posts about how people are irritated about the lonesome life, have no friends, or want someone to talk to them, to the point i considered making this post myself, im not trying to be judgemental ir patronising here (as some might call it) its just a general curiosity for me, i mean i just wonder how alienated some people might be that they need a random anonymous stranger to be their friend or a penpal out of all the places, reddit, how do you expect to seek advice from someone yoy dont know, you’ve never seen and most likely never will. Has Chandigarh really become that isolating for all people, and if yes; why is that?