Which state should I relocate to as a Software Developer?

I work as a SDE in a well known MNC in Bangalore. I am at a point in career where I have to change my team. I’m also probably going to get married by the end of this year so I am thinking about the ideal place to be. I have 3 options, 1. Bangalore: I love the place but the social environment does not suit me. Rents are skyrocketing, people are getting hostile and the worst part is that I don’t know the language to deal with the locals. 2. Gurgaon/Noida: I am not aware the exact situation but I believe this will be defined cheaper than BLR. Also I will be close to my family which has been my goal few years down the line. I’m worried about the AQI situation tho. 3. Hyderabad: I feel is a slightly better version of BLR. Which one should I choose? Also if it helps, I am a north indian working in blr.