What’s wrong with Indian parents?

I recently met couple of friends from UG , all of whom are looking for partners for marriage. What shocked me was when they told that their account on matrimonial sites are managed by their parents and the profiles that they see are also sent to them by their parents. This was utterly shocking to me. Aren’t these people adults who are supposed to look for a partner, like why are they so dependent on parents and why their parents not allowing their kids to grow up ? What about when it’s time to have kids, will they go take permission from their parents ? I think these people have failed to become adults and their parents have failed as parents. What’s worse? Divorces are mostly happening because of parents are relatives. And for mediation relatives get involved, the whole thing looks like a circus.