Not all women but how to know which women...?

How can a guy make sure that he is not being exploited, harmed, be used as an ATM or chauffeur, emotionally manipulated into doing things in the pretext of sex or companionship, being looted of your hard earned money while on meeting a woman, avoid false allegations...be it in a relationship, marriage or at workplace, steer clear of "man haters" hiding behind masks... Ladies please excuse this post, if you are going to do whataboutery.