Men - talk to your partner about Atul Subash to know how she really feels about men.

I brought up Atul Subash’s suicide/murder with my girlfriend. I just mentioned I saw it on Twitter and asked her if she’s heard about it. Her response was a bit … interesting. 1. She started off by saying the guy probably harassed his wife so she probably was just venting when she told him to commit suicide. It was just a heat of the moment comment and doesn’t mean that she is responsible for him committing suicide. 2. Followed up with - shakal dekh uski (look at his face) who would want to live with him. 3. And finally said “aise nhi ho sakta ki all the accusations against him are false. He might be guilty of some of them.” I wanted to ask her if it would be ok to blame the victim and ask what a woman did if her partner hit her. But decided against it coz it wasn’t worth the argument. She has always been vocal about feminist issues but honestly is a really sweet person. Never sensed hatred towards men before this. Still kinda processing her reaction and thinking it might be time to end it.