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Idk what or how to feel about this.
I will keep this as short as possible So i got a call from my ex yesterday after 7 months to answer my question (why did you just breakup and go back to your ex in like 2 weeks) 7 months ago she took me to lonavala and proposed me on my birthday and 17 days later her brother saw us coming out of a hotel and told her father about it and then she called me instantly after her father called and asked her about everything that who i was and what was she doing with me and xyz ..and the first thing she tells me is that he's found out about us we have to breakup (she didn't do that initially)..and i was attached to her at this point (we were seeing each other for 2 months and we did a lot of spontaneous things this whole time literally every single day after our first date like i used to travel 24km every single day to meet her and then we used to go out in malls , shopping,movies, try new food places and you name it) but on 2nd of june her mom had read all the chats and confronted her that she has to breakup now 3rd of june she calls me and tells me to meet her and i booked some movie tickets for a movie which had almost no people in it so we could talk peacefully now i kinda saw it coming that she's gonna breakup and she did. she asked me what if we don't get to see each other anymore someday? and i was like are you asking me or telling me that ? she didn't answer and after being completely silent for 5 mins she dropped the bomb that her mom had told her to breakup and my dad was gonna get me married but my mom stopped him and things are not good at house my dad doesn't even look at me anymore and i kinda had tears in my eyes hearing all of that.. now after breaking up we still kept talking and on 5th of July she had this college function and she wore a saree and she came near my college just to show me how she looked and wanted complements from me but since she had broken up i talked kinda rude to her and didn't give any complements(last time she wore a saree infront of me i was literally in love looking at her and my jaw was drop dead and she expected the same reaction) and then we had a huge fight over this and she said ya I have realised that people just want to get out of your life once you tell them to leave I'm taking risks even after my mom dad have found out and you're being so rude to me and all..and i told her that she was very rude to me aswell (before breaking up i asked her what about us? and her answer was there's no us? why are you being so selfish my mom dad have found about us and you are only caring about yourself and not me everyone wants to think about themselves no one is caring about me at all.(now idk where i was being selfish cuz i was thinking about us and not myself) now on 7th out of no where she calls me and tells me can you come help me shift my house (she used to live with her sister in a rented house bcz college was far away from her orginal home) and me being super into her i said yes and helped her shopping and shift..now we had a lil chit chat and she tells me that her ex had rented this house before her for almost 2 years while they were in a relationship ) (now i was very suspicious about this cuz her parents were gonna marry her off few days ago and what not but now she's shifting home wtf? and that too in the same house where her ex lived) 8th june again we went to buy groceries and whole bunch of stuff from Dmart i literally walked for 2 hrs straight with her and helped her do everything in her house and (her sister was not gonna be home for 1 month so she we did the deeds that day and she told me that i can come over for the whole month now) and i thought maybe things are getting better and I'm just worrying too much cuz she earns and is indipendent. now 10th of june she tells me her parents are taking her out on a trip (wow 2 week phle aag lagi thi ghar me ab trip ho rahi hai)and told me she'd come back on 13th and next day she blocked me from everywhere and i couldn't contact her until 12th where she texted me and told me my parents are around me so I can't talk to you or they'll just find out. i was like okay i understand text me when u get back home.. 13th june I'm still not unblocked i was like maybe i should wait and next day i was like maybe i should go check up at her place is she home or no while i have return the curtains we had bought while shopping (it was the last day to return em) so i returned em and then went to her home but her door was locked so that gave me a sigh of relief cuz i was really worried and then I started heading home and while i was goin idk what was going on with me suddenly this thought crossed my mind (what if i see her with someone else?) and guess what 2 mins later on the highway i see her on her bike with her fking ex...... i literally followed them back and confronted her about this bullshit and she was like no he came here 3 hrs ago i was on trip with my parents only ..she still denies that she had probably gone on a trip with that guy only.. and then i was super mad at her we talked for 3hrs and i was like you made a fool out me i trusted you with my 100% and this is what i get? now i had done a lot for her like i used to travel 24km daily and then drive for extra kms wherever we went to cuz she was passanger princess, got her few dresses and perfume and basically just treated her like a princess. now next day she tells me she wants to leave him and she's extremely sorry and she wasn't in her right mind with all of that stuff going on with her and i was like okay cool leave him(now i was dumb enough to think she was telling me the truth) she said I'd need time to leave him and i was like take idc just breakup now this guy slept in her house every since day until 22 june and on 27th she went back to her dadajis (amravati) and on 30th she blocks me telling I'm immature and i should stand up for my self earn some money why do you have so much time for me ?? instead go find some job wtf are you doing with your life? (now all of this wasn't a issue until she wanted to go back to her ex never said anything to me or talked to me about this ever.. before going back to her ex ..me spending time with her everyday was a greenflag for her ..me giving attention was greenflag for her..me travelling 24km everyday was a greenflag for her..me travelling 24km at 11 in night with a ice cream 2 days after our first date cuz she had gotten her periods was a green flag for her ..now it was my fault that i was giving my whole time after 7 working my ass off while day..i used to literary go meet her instantly whenever she had mood swings to pamper her...had a lot of fights with parents almost everyday cuz i used to be with her late night and she knew about that aswell) i was putting everything i had into her and so did she but everything changed suddenly. she said my ex is going to buy a house soon he gets 50-70k per photoshoot he's well settled ..why don't you work on yourself (she used to pay for everything on every date cuz i was trapped in a 45k loan i barely had any money left in the end of month but i used to gift her stuff so i could somehow invest into us) she comes from a very rich family so rich she could buy me.. now the whole loan had ended and I'm debt free.. now 7 months later she called me and told me that she was a horrible person and very selfish she left me cuz her dad said do you really see a future with this broke guy? and apparently reality hit her and she just irrationally brokeup with me thinking what if this guy stays broke after let's say 1 year of relationship or 2 years and this is the reason she went back to her ex cuz apparently she wasn't over him yet she wanted himr out of her life but 3 years memories just won't go away (this guy had cheated on her once and wouldn't treat her the way she wanted..is a typical Sigma guy who think agar maine ladki ko jyda attention diya to mere sir pe beth jayegi wo) (mind you my dad runs a business which i can get into anyday i want and i earn around 50-55k per month freelancing) now according to her freelancing and running a youtube channel (which gets me money by paid promotions) isn't a real way to earn money i have to get a job (this is what she had said in june) while she herself is a freelance graphic designer. and now apparently his parents are gonna come meet her parents and she is gonna get engaged to him before the month end if things work out Between em and parents agree (that guy has changed a lot according to her) he's the same guy who cheated on her , made her feel terrible for a making a mess in bed (he shouted at her for finishing and told her not to do this every again) spread rumours in her friends circle that she was with him for sex only. knocked on her door out of nowhere after 2 months of breakup and called her names(yk bad stuff) she had cried 3 times in my arms because of the above and i was there for her emotionally physically mentally supporting her and what did i get in the end ? nothing. just got told that i was a loser got compared to her ex said bad things to me ...told me i deserved to stay in her block list got told that i just am a drama queen (i have hypothyroidism and i have constant joint pain and my health isn't over-all great with lot of issue) i did everything her ex didn't do for her and that's what i got for being super nice to her.. So my question is why would she lead me after she had first broken up with me why call me for shifting? why tell me i could come over when all she wanted to do is go back to her ex i told her that i think she's lying about the whole mom dad finding out scenario and going on a trip with them thing but she still denies it. so my question is where did i go wrong ladies? what was my fault? why wouldn't she just have faith in me that I won't always be the same or did she just lie to me about minor details and all she wanted was to go back to her ex. I'm not over her yet i still miss her every single day .. I've met few girls but u don't get any feelings for them..4
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