What are your thoughts on people saying "that's just my preference " towards lighter shade ethnicity and glorifying stereotypes of particular race men being " hyper masc " or for women " docile " & oh not a feminist?

I'd be happy to site papers on ethnic fetishization, " non - white women " and scientific factors on attraction. And " just a preference " is shaped by exposure , conditioning. Media & culture always plays role of what shape , size is deemed worthy to be with .