Should I call quit with my wife? She had transformed and went really dark very quickly.

Background: we met on AM site and quickly developed a relationship. We used to make out every time we used to get the opportunity and were very find of each other Not a perfect love story but I fought my parents to marry her and she also did the same. FAST FORWARD IN OUR MARRIAGE BECAUSE MY SISTER'S marriage was aligned together we did not got time for vacation: # Now in our marriage things started going wrong like that: She used to speak for 4 to 5 hours with her mom daily and especially in night which used to kill my mood ii) We were living seperatelyafrom parents and all was good, I even invited my MIL got her home in the same society as they were looking to move out and prioritized blending in fully with her family while she did not # My thought was if I do it maybe she will reciprocate iii) But things started esclating when my father got sick, and her only concern was where my mom will live something happenshto my dad # iv) This went for months and I ignored because of work but fatehis ironical and her dad passed away within 6 months of our marriage, I kept everything aside arranged funeral and a couple of months MIL to live together # v) During this time. My MIL used to constantly poke me the definition of ideal husband and what my mom said made them feel bad. I stayed silent because of tragedy but after 3 months I started giving back and exposing the hypocrisy out # Vi) the first trip I invited her out ahe invited her mother # VII) Her behavior got more rude and disrespectful and Iswe stopped being intimate I didn't felt attractedoto her and cherry on top extra weight and she had skin diseases which leave strong dota like burned marks for her # Viii) We are at a point where she want to do everything opposite of me. Don't want to go on tripsp, rekindlw romance etc. # Ix) if that is the case how will I repair relationship if she don't want to participate and remain on the dark side # PS : I truly believe marriage is commitment and don't want to, break just because I am not getting my share of affection but is therenany way to rescue if she is not ready to communicate? # What is the breaking point to call it off? Again personally guys I don't give up easily and if you read my last story how I started late in life and amassed success you will know.