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My married male friend keeps hitting on me .
I am 22(F) friends with M(25) since we both were very young , there was some mild flirting back and forth until three years ago, after which I got in a serious relationship and we kind off drifted apart. A year ago he got married in an arranged marriage situation to a very beautiful person and I went through an emotionally challenging breakup . After my breakup I started reconnecting with all my friends and he was one of them, in the beginning , our conversations were decent and civil , both of us connect over our love for a specific music genre and have alot of sarcastic jokes among us. But during those conversations once or twice (every conversation) he would flirt with me or hit on me , I thought I was just over thinking it and misunderstanding it, and when I confronted him , he would act like he didn't say anything. After that I limited my conversation to keep any awkward moments at bay and I just called him to wish him birthday (because we still are good friends to call ) and got to talking about an event I had attended the previous night, he kept making inappropriate remarks as to how he'd love to have his birthday present be a video of I doing some stuff from the event (belly dancing performance). And I laughed it off as a joke and let it go, but then he constantly came back to it throughout the conversation and even on text later. Besides that he saves all my snaps on snapchat where it's my face in the snap. Is it weird? Should I stop talking to him altogether? Update: i have had a clear conversation regarding my boundaries on this the same day he kept texting and I told him it's inappropriate because you're married, he didn't find that wrong ?!5
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