I want to know a man’s perspective whether my behaviour will incite you more or I am right in expecting these from my partner??

As I go back and retrospect, I want to know if these things will make a guy angry or these expectations are right. 1. Imagine this - you partner wants to do something whether going out for dinner or do something together but u always say No. Eventually after years, with a No said once she starts cribbing that it was expected and nothing new. As a man, how do u feel about it. 2. Let’s assume you partner wants to buy something or do something, at first you blatantly say no and then after she makes up her mind, you ask her to do exact same thing and this time she denies. You blatantly say no to everything she wants later manipulate that u had never denied. But when it is about something u want she must do it for u, including sharing all expenses. Will u tell in future that you had given her an option but she denied. 3. As a man, if your mom hates hour wife, will you expect your wife to adjust? 4. If your wife/partner is sick, let’s assume u do everything but keep yelling at her u did this and that to help and she has to remember this. How will u react when she says “what is the point of doing so much if u keep on scolding me about it” 5. Last question- if ur wife is sick or facing some health issues, will u take it lightly or u will be proactive about taking her to hospital and ensuring that the problem is not serious instead of blaming her that she should force you to go for check up I really want to know how a man feels in these circumstances. Whether a man gets annoyed or understands circumstances and prioritises accordingly