How are you all straights doing?

Valentine's day just went by. While returning from the movies with my gf, I saw this girl with smeared makeup standing alone waiting for a cab. She obviously had been crying before. I didn't pay much heed to it, maybe had a bad date. I drop my girl to her place and return to mine as my friend pulls me over to her side and begins venting about how she is considering breaking up with her bf because he's pressurising her into having sax sux with him because it's valentine's and stuff and she isn't ready. Now again I consoled her but dude let's talk about it tomorrow. I'm happy right now. I pick up my phone and open social media. Way to kill the happiness. There's floods of rants/vents/complains of girls about their boyfriends, that they're fckboys, pressurizing them into having sax sux with them, don't show efforts, toxic abusive relationships, etc etc. I've noticed this in real life as well. Help me understand this. Girls falling for the bullies and big guys. While the hopeless romantics remain...hopeless. There's tons of guys who boast a good heart yet don't have girlfriends. Are heterosexual couples really that disconnected with each other? Y'all really going for the bad guys? Because I'm gay and never had to deal with guys like that. So I don't really know. I just feel so bad for you guys some times. Always reminds me of cameron doves' "I could be a better boyfriend than him" lmao. Am i just naive? Is there really a difference? Is it just social media that exaggerates things? Share your experiences. Disclaimer: I'm gay and taken so no, I can't actually be a better boyfriend than him lol. Wish you all happiness!