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Fought with my friend over somethingstupid and now I seriously regret it. How do I face this !!
I had a fight with my friend over something so stupid and petty, and now I seriously regret !! I had a fight ( heated argument over having different opinions and ideologies)with my friend over something so stupid and petty, and now I seriously regret it. We are ( or were ) really close, but since the fight things feel weird. There’s this hesitation between us, and I feel like he’s acting distant ( can feel it in my gut , though he is still talking but I can sense something is off) I think I was the one at fault. I acted like an immature mindless bitch...while he stayed calm and handled it maturely( he is a selfless, helpful and nice person I'm bitch who acted this way ) . The thing is I don’t usually lose my temper but when I do , I completely lose my shit . I get loud and harsh .. say things I don’t mean and just act out of control. And now I’m stuck feeling guilty, overthinking everything, and regretting my actions. this dumb and useless fight has put a dent in our friendship. I don’t have a lot of close friends and I really don’t want to lose him over something so dumb. But now I don’t even know how to fix it because he’s pulling away. How do I handle this? How do i control my tongue? How do I make things right and stop myself from blowing up like that in the future? Should I keep making efforts or let him go ? I think I'm troubling him ? I know I need to learn to control my temper and think before I speak .. but I lose complete control when I get into a fight 🙌🏻 Edit - no i didn't insult him in front of anyone nor did I use derogatory language..I didn't even insult him in the first place . It was a fight or more like a debate about having a different view points but this got escalated real bad !!4
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