Is it just me, or is dating in Vadodara way harder than it should be?

So, is it just me, or is dating in Vadodara and making real connections extremely difficult? It feels like either girls are too scared to take a genuine compliment as just that—a compliment—or they immediately assume it’s some hidden agenda. I recently came out of a long-term relationship, and honestly, I don’t know if I’ve lost my skills or if Vadodara is just stuck in a more retro mindset when it comes to dating. It’s frustrating trying to have a normal conversation without it turning into some weird social minefield. For context, I’m 28, and I’m just looking for something real. But between ghosting, overanalyzing, and general lack of enthusiasm, it feels like a dead-end. Anyone else experiencing this, or is it just me?