I encourage students to get into romantic relationship college, fed up with AM BS

Too much bs during AM process, I encourage my college students to chase / get into romantic relationship during college itself preferably to someone of same or similar caste! (since our boomer society is against intercaste marriage), frankly this saves parents a lot of headache during AM. PS Girls don't trust anyone until marriage is done, don't get into physical relationship until marriage no matter what, also you're better off convincing your parents if your partner is same similar caste, remember that. Others Comment, how to ensure individual choice to choose best partner while ensuring social constraint of same/similar caste marriage