I will not promote, just a few questions about getting off the ground

I’m just wondering if I do t know many people in the dev space (I’m really the only one), and I wanna get at least early access going, I have no money, but I believe in what I made, where do I even start??? So far, everything I find says to network but no one programs and when I start talking about what I made, I’m “promoting” so that’s a no go…I see to run adds but Google wants a lot of money to run ads…I don’t have a team, and the only thing I can do to keep me motivated is keep adding features to it. Any recommendations on how to even talk about it online without getting banned or flagged as a promo? PS-I’m a bit of an introvert after so studies I e completed so I lowkey don’t like about 50% of humans so that doesn’t help either :(