Unpopular opinion

From many NEETS I have seen their parents were bad always giving them false hope about their dreams and giving them all the resources to become one in the first place. I just think when parents realise they are failures they try their best to trap their kids into becoming even bigger failures because when a child succeeds they make the parents look bad and force them to reflect on what they could of achieved if they wasnt so much of a failure after all. Just an opinion