Being attractive and NEET, realizing people only like me for my looks

It doesn’t feel all that good, because I realized how dystopian and hopeless this all feels, it’s a confirmation about life is fucked up, this is my personal experience and proof your genes and family determines the vast majority of your life outcomes/satisfaction. It feels surreal. People see me as an object, it’s like my looks turn on parts of their programming to be madly attracted to me, they don’t even know who I am or care about my feelings, I’m not even a person to them, I might as well be a circus freak to be showed off. it feels like I’m in the matrix. It’s a very disturbing and despairing feel, I also sympathize with those who weren’t born with attractive features, life is messed up. I feel burdened, like I should be doing more with my life, I feel ashamed to be struggling while others are living all sorts of life experiences, I’m just withering away my prime. I’ve even had people shame me, put me down for being where I am in life, without ever getting to know my struggles, yet telling me how they’d be living a much better life if they were in my position, that really hurt. I also feel having looks doesn’t mean much if you can’t use it, I’d rather trade it for a competent, loving family, I suffered most of my losses due to abusive family, becoming isolated. Attractive NEETs out there, do you feel disturbed by how you’re being objectified, and feel pressured you’re not doing more to be living your best life, feel despair your best years is passing by?? Would you trade your looks for the cure to whatever caused your problems to become NEET? 😵‍💫😵😵‍💫