A thing that bothers me

In every appointment i had, my psychologist will always say your not a loser, failure etc and he always able to rationally explain why with solid reasons, for example first obviously being mental illness and everyones brains work differently then i came on reddit today just to find a post of someone asking advice for her bf who is unable to hold jobs to find nine out of ten comments that says “LEAVE HIM, HIS A MANCHILD, A LOSER!, etc”. Sigh.. This is exactly what i mean when i told my psychologist that im a loser is that im the society conception of a “loser” but he tells me im wrong which i find the whole ordeal fucking amusing. Maybe i show him the reddit post to show what i meant.