What’s wrong with Indian families?

I recently shifted to another city for work, since it is majorly work from home, my parents asked me to live with my brother and his wife, I have no issues with it but the problem is my family is not at all liberal when it comes to male friends, like bro seriously I studied in a co-ed school, then got a decent paying job from a good college atleast 1000km from my hometown, that too co-ed, they believe I only have female friends no male interaction(little only) Been in a relationship since 3 years, he’s also working in the same city I can’t tell this to any member of my family, guys literally it’s 2025 and I need to make excuses for a normal cafe outing with my boyfriend, with excuses getting as lame as going out with female friends, that too is not allowed because they can’t trust cab drivers??!! But they themselves can travel alone anytime I am so done with this how can you confine an adult in the four corners, I am only allowed to go outside with them or family member coz friends can’t be trusted these days? What am I even supposed to do except ranting out here