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Need help with breaking up
Really need to vent it out so hold on, don't judge me yet! I've got a bit of peculiar situation rn. I'm 24m dating 25f, started and still in ldr, she's in different city, we were friends since college and she was the only girl I kept in touch with daily after college ended. She asked me out once after a couple of months the college ended, but I denied as I was prepping for mba entrances and healing post surgery. She still stayed volunteerily as friend asking me to forget about it. Then she asked me out again when I got into college and here we are. We've met only thrice since we started dating and she was being pressurized by her parents for getting married. Family bg- she's got complete orthodox and I've got complete modern who accepted her and supported throughout since I told them while I've been rejected by her parents way before we started dating! For no apparent reason!! We belong to the same caste, I come from a family of doctors, working on my own stuff while getting placed in good company. The only reason being that nothing in our horoscopes matched, my parents were cool about it for all the time but then we visited a pundit ourselves to cross verify what they had been hammering her with. Let's just say I had to sit there and was given a run through of the worst life I could ever imagine, somehow make it even worse than that by atleast 5 times and make me live it over and over again. The worst thing is this all can go away if we break it off, not be involved with each other ever again. Upon hearing that my parents absolutely did a complete 180 because there were no amount of remedies that could ever work! I was still a little optimistic but then I remembered that she herself believed in it. And now that my parents have taken a firm stand, which I cannot cross, I need to do something which I had never dreamt, thought, pondered or even cared about. And I am realizing it just now that it's valentine's day, for crying out loud. Can I ever hit anything more rock bottom than this......1
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