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Did I do anything wrong ?
Hello Redditors, so here's a situation about what happened with me a few days ago and I've been trying to gain some perspectives for the same. Idk if it's really worth thinking or discussing, but then let's do it just for the sake of discussing something. I had one of my important global level exams a few days back and I had been preparing hard for it. I gave that exam in the mid of November and there's a female friend of mine who I was in constant touch with and was discussing and chatting with on a frequent basis. So, we had a plan where I would meet her after my exams, spend some quality time, go to a nearby mall, have some good food and just chat and spend time, that's it. So, as the day ended, she told me thoda wait karo, I want to give you something. I was like okay, apne ghar gayi hogi (rajasthan) aur waha se kuch laayi hogi. We didn't meet before my exams for a decent period of time, since I had my exams to prepare for as mentioned previously. Ab jab usne gift di, toh ek bada sa decorative box tha jisme 3 dabbe the aur un sabme dry fruits the. Now, I was very very very happy because zindagi mai pehli baar toh kisine mujhe gift di aur wo bhi usne jo meri 9 saal se friend hai, itna kuch khaas friend nahi, but even since she has shifted to Mumbai for her job, I've been helping her out, so usme friendship improve hogayi, otherwise she never gave 2 flying F's about me after college and just before we reconnected. Anyways, coming back to the point. When I reached my home, I saw the box carefully and it was legit a used one. Ab mujhe kese pata chala ki wo used one hai ? The edges were all gaurdy and torn, the stickers/labels were stuck unevenly. Ab mera bas itna kehna hai ki agar ye sachme nayi gift hai, toh tumne shelf se uthakar dekhi hogi thik se, check ki hogi thik se, aur sahi lagi hogi fir tum payment counter tak jaakar uske liye pay karoge. This is as simple as that. I got very angry and agitated, ki bhai his bandi ke liye maine bhar bhar ke efforts daale, uske vulnerable times mai uske saath raha, jo efforts uske gharwalo ne daalne chahiye wo maine daalke uska time sambhala, wo bandi mere liye soch samaj ke ek gift nahi le sakti ? Achi khaasi qualified hai and ache level pe kaam karti hai. We had a huge fight, usme bhi respectfully baat kar rahe the hum ek dusre se, but then she told me this: 'Aaj maine teri aukaad dekhli' 'Tujhe koi hak nahi mere se ese baat karneka' 'Sorry, but you can't treat me like this' 'Ek box ko leke tu kya itna bakheda khada kar raha hai' 'Ek packaging ko leke tu ye sab bakwas kar raha hai' Since then, we decided not to talk to each other. I even told her tujhe Jo karna hai kar, insta handle se nikalna ho toh nikal de, linkedin se nikalna ho toh nikal de, maze kar aur ab mujhe kabhi contact mat karna and mai tujhe kabhi contact nahi karunga. Ab aaplog apna opinion share karo, kya maine kuch galat kiya ? Maine us bandi ko as a shield protect kiya hai, uske tantrums sehen kiye hai and end mai jab ek mauka aya, ek situation ayi jab wo kuch Dene ke position mai hai, toh mai esa accept Karu ? That box was legit looking like a used one, as if it was just kept aside until not decided as to what exactly needs to be done with the same and the way she gave it to me while we met was also not in a very nice manner. Bas samne pada tha and she said, 'arey ha, ye tere liye'. Ab ese kaun deta hai ? I got very angry after the fight, wrapped up the gift and returned it to her via 'wefast'. Phone pe mujhe keh rahi thi, I won't accept and all. When the courier guy reached, chup chap shaanti se usne accept karliya and tabse koi baatchit nahi ki. (The courier guy told me ki the courier has been accepted) Mai kabhi kabar insta story daaldeta hu, toh wo dekhti hai, koi unfriend wala scene nahi, koi blocking wala scene nahi. But, I think mai reciprocation and self respect ko dhyaan mai rakh ke sab kar raha tha. Maine aaj tak usse koi demand nahi ki, selfless friendship rakhi. Agar kuch de raho ho, toh thoda dhyaan rakh ke do na, won't it hurt the other person ? Idk, let's see what you guys have to say!2
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