Time can fix a lot of things, and this community has really supported me in getting through the mental struggles caused by unhealthy relationships

A few days ago, I shared how that girl broke up with me after we hooked up, and it left me confused. I started to think that maybe I was just a rebound for her. It kind of makes sense since she mentioned I was her first, and a few friends told me it’s rare for a girl to dump a guy right after losing her virginity and I was in love with her I thought we had consent so I went along with this. We met on Facebook about two months ago, and I think she had just had a fight with her boyfriend. She was in a rough spot when we met, and I treated her well, which probably helped her heal from her breakup. I was feeling pretty down myself, hoping she might come back, but when I shared my thoughts with some friends, they all agreed I was probably right. Honestly, I wanted to be wrong, but hearing that just even crushed me more. I kept wondering why I got involved in such a mess. I wanted to trust her, but looking back, I see she was dishonest, narcissists , hates animals, self-centered, and even had some racist views. I thought I could help her change, but you can’t fix someone who isn’t ready to change. The best way to move on is to focus on fixing yourself. A lot of folks told me it was just a short fling and that I got even laid, but I didn’t see it that way. I genuinely wanted to be with her. However, as I got to know her better, I started noticing all these red flags that I somehow missed at first. It’s weird how I couldn’t see that side of her. Thankfully, the Reddit community really opened my eyes and helped me realize that this isn’t the end of the world. Tomorrow could be better, and maybe I’ll find someone who truly values my efforts and respects me. I never expected that people I’ve never met would help me through this tough time. Some comments were pretty harsh, while others were super supportive, but they all aimed to help me understand my situation. I can’t thank them enough. From that moment on, I decided I want to help others who’ve been dumped, rejected, cheated on, or ghosted because I know how painful that can be. If my instincts about her are right, I actually feel sorry for her current boyfriend. Honestly, I’m relieved I’m not with someone so emotionally unstable