Why people only care about 'gender war ' now

I can't understand where you all were when Indian men faced hate because of the actions of some disgusting monsters. Back then, everyone seemed okay with generalizations. There were thousands of comments and tweets all over social media calling for our death, nuking us, labeling us as ugly, and more all of which received thousands of likes. Yet no one spoke about a gender war during those times. Some Indian women even justified racism against Indian men, but there was no mention of a gender war back then. I still remember incidents where women attacked a her bf's private parts and killed him and the entire comment section on social media was filled with Indian women saying he deserved it. There was hardly any gender war discussion. I am not here to defend men who insult and abuse women in the comment section or DM but I find it hypocritical that you only seem to care about these issues now.