Yeh Hai Mohabattein - WHY Raman never confront Ishita about her hugging Mani in a private place and saying that she wants to leave him and Ruhi?!?

DISCLAIMER: Just wanted to state before the keyboard warriors start doing their thing that by far the biggest fault in this entire track about jealousy was Raman since he got drunk and assaulted Ishita after that function. Just wanted to point that out of the way. But before that episode.... WHY WHY WHY doesn't Raman confront Ishita about what her and Mani were doing at that private place? This was around episode 269. And even worse, WHY WHY WHY WHY WHYYY does Ishita say something like that??? It is so completely out of character and very awkward. "Oh its a joke" omfg bruh that is NOT a joke! That is an extremely serious and hurtful thing to just say out as a joke. I was rewatching this track recently coz I can't stop thinking about it. 10 years ago when I watched these episodes live, I got hte exact same feeling I am now rewatching it. This is such an extremely sad and hurtful part of the show, not just for ishita with the way raman is acting towrads her and ESPECIALLY when he assaults her whilst drunk, it is so extremely extremely extremely horrible for Raman as well. He is literally going through the exact same nightmare as he once did with Shagun and yet Ishita just keeps trying to make Raman jealous with Mani, completely voiding her natural critical thinking skills and ability, even when raman in a drunken rage screams at mani that he had broken the relationship and love between ishita and his family and himself (this was in 270). It is such a horrible jealousy track. Before Raman assaults ishita and all that I just can't help but just cry and feel so incredibly sorry for him. How can someone's wife JOKEDLY tell another man that she wants to leave her wife and then proceed to hug them!?!???! AND IN A PRIVATE AREA!? ABSURD! "I lOVEEE you mani!!!! Im going to leave my husband and kids and be with you!" Before proceeding to hug them. Absolutely disgusting. Don't you guys feel like Raman should have confronted Ishita abotu why she said that so that she can understand what the problem is? That would have been a much better way to do this jealousy track instead of having raman assault her. It would also let ishita know how much of a stupid person she was being via making jokes as extreme as that, in a private location, whilst letting her realise that the new anger raman had for her, fueled from jealousy, is the same type that he had for Shagun, meaning that she has now finally replaced shagun in his heart. Love and hate come from the same place... this would have been a more masterful way of handling this. When I read the comments of episode 269 and 270 , etc. on youtube, every single person in the comments feels horrible for Raman. ***And the funniest part about all this is that people who defend ishita and say that she did nothing wrong here, even with the lying and changing manis name on her phone and telling him "I love you", these people act deaf when you ask them about how ishita acted when sanjana stated that she was raman's ex. She full on had an autistic style meltdown, throwing things around the room, talking to herself, getting angry on Raman, crying, etc. LOL, and these people say that "raman should learn to not be insecure" oh F\*CK OFF!***