The way women are treated in ITV makes me so angry

In every show women are abused, go through murder and sexual assault attemps to prove thier loyalty to a family or husband. But they still treat her like a dormat lol, so what's even the point of that struggle? Usually people change after you suffer so much, but these family members will always treat the Bahu/gf like a maid. Unless someone enjoys sadistic pleasure, I can't imagine someone finding any joy or meaning in these plots. It's like every women is an eternal bechari for maker's. They glorify mental abuse, as "agni pariksha" of wife, but no pariksha for men? They go on to become CEO's after a marriages breakdown, but a women will always be been struggling financially due to which she now has to work under the same AH ex husband (common plot in tv shows) I'm not saying I don't enjoy the storyline in many shows, it's fun but I always have to cut out this unnecessary drama of women being Mahaan and Devi