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I decided not to marry.
I am 26M working in corporate, a well earning person. Past few years, I was thinking about my future and planning my life. But recently, I have come across a change in my perspective. I don't want to ever have a legal marriage inmy life. There are reasons that lead to me make this decision: 1. I had 2 relationships in past and realised I can't blindly trust anyone. People are always ready to backstab and betray you. And if I can't fully trust anyone, I don't want to be with them. 2. I can't fake myself and maintaining relationships needs a lot of pretention. I don't quite go along with people, have very limited friends and don't want additional people that comes with marriage set-up. 3. Being in relationship, I felt I am limited by my mental state, time and ability to focus in real things. 4. Cost of living is being too high now a days. Education, Insurance, house, personal vehicle, medical funds, these are cut throat and affording these in coming few years going to give me a lot of stress and tension. 5. Indian laws for men are below the belt. If anything happens even if it is false, court trials will go till end of my last breath or bring my last breath sooner. 6. Recent cases of people suiciding because of false cases like alimony, torture, abuse or domestic violence is something I don't ever want to face. 7. I appreciate art, sceneries, write poetry and stories and I want to enjoy that in my free time or spend my time enjoying that. 8. I want to travel, explore and experience world heritage, culture and life with my savings. 9. This decision will give me freedom to choose in which country I want to spend my time, choose hobby that I want to pursue and profession I want my career in. My point of writing this here is, I want to know what are the problems I am going to face and how to deal with my parents to convince them for this. Let me know your views.10
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