Where do I meet divorced/widow women for dating? R

I’m 36M, 6 feet, well settled, in senior management of an MNC. Divorced after a rough marriage of 5 years. I am looking to start afresh but here are my observations from last few months: 1. Don’t want to go for arranged marriage again. Too much PTSD from earlier experience 2. Dating apps are not for me. Firstly, I get very few matches and then the ones I match with usually don’t vibe well. 3. I would prefer someone who is also divorced or widowed. I feel someone who has gone through same journey can understand mine too. 4. Not able to meet any interesting woman through friends or conventional methods. I tried striking conversation with random girls in coffee shops, clubs but India is still not there. Anyone who matches this description and wants to talk, pls DM. Any pointers to suggest how should I approach dating now is most welcome.