How to be okay and accept our position in this society?

Okay. This might be pathetic. Judge all you want. But how do we accept our lives are never going to be as fullfiling and great as live of people who come from generational Wealth and liberal family environments? I was just insta scrolling and there are so many cute wholesome reels..even from Telugu Communities..be it relationships, marriages , academic achievements or even pets..etc. they're living life the way it should be lived IMO. NO matter how brilliant and smart and good people from lower class and caste are..our lives are going to be unfulfilled, traumatic and suffocating. So many of us inhibitions , restrictions for everything..right from our sexualities to our career projections...responsibilities (both financial and family) at a very young age.. everything is designed to keep us sad and deformed. The reasons(capitalism-patricahy-caste-gender expectations and roles ) don't matter anymore after while. Both our bodies and minds become number. We're stuck in regressive debt filled conservative superstitious families with no way out. What's the purpose of living such a pathetic life devoid of any love and upward social mobility?