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Finding it hard to live at home with new WFH Job
Hi people, First time posting in this sub, i recently switched my job and got a WFH offer. I've been living in delhi due my undergraduate studies from DU and recently shifted to ggn as well, originally I'm from a tier two town. During this time my father had a good behaviour towards me. Recently I've noticed a weird shift in his behaviour and toxicity towards me and my younger sister as well. My younger sister didn't used to tell me about how bad it was with her, but now I realise as I've moved back home. For eg: During new years, we were out on a vacay; I got scolded that I'm getting out of hand and "bahot bolne lag gaya hu" "teri aukat kuch nahi hai", "bahot banta hai tu". While I asked him ki please tell me what did I do wrong, he didn't reply back with anything and said mauka aane par bataunga. I respect my father a lot and he's done a lot for me, but this statement was heartwrecking, I spent my new years night crying along in the hotel room, while whole family was out partying and drinking. I didn't wanna let relatives or anybody know what happened. Recently as I switched to a new job as well, I was living in a flat in ggn, which i thought of leaving in ggn and moving back to my town, but I just casually mentioned to him ki, I'm thinking i might shift to Delhi, and he replied, "tereko paise ki kadar nahi hai" I asked him why and he said remote job aur bahar kyu jana hai, i mentioned ki udhar growth prospects acche rehte, life is good + living here alone at home is pretty monotonous with no friends, (I'm just 22m). After this my mother asked me, why I don't sit with gradma if we both are only alone in the whole house, and i told her, I'll sit where ever I want, stop being so controlling, i realised it was bad to say but I was just angry based on how my parents have been acting with me. Then my father came and said the same thing, "zubaan zada laggi hai, mauka aane pe bataunga". It just pisses me so much off, I don't take a penny from my parents, even supporting my sister's education myself and I've to deal with this. I thought I should be living back at home only as I'll save money but I can't really deal with this would ideally pay more than to face him honestly. Still confused what I do. Tldr; Moved back home after graduation and finding it hard to live at home with parents, father showing very controlling behaviour, got a WFH Job, need some advice.4
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