Is it even more tough for Chennai guys who have old school idea of love and not able to adapt?

I grew up in a time where in all movies, hero would fall in love with heroine become lovers with the ONLY AIM of getting married. So love always means = getting married for me, it has never changed and never will. But in today's world people have become different with so many world outlook being adopted. 'Casually dating' without expecations, not supposed to talk about marriage at start.. This whole 'dating' formula - 'asking girl out' , taking out on date, proposing everythign seems to be fully Hollywood style. This 'asking out' itself back in the day meant 'Hey I like you and we should get married' Do many of you still have an old backward approach and find it hard to date nad find a partner in today's modern world?