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Moving Out from my family because I feel suffocated while living with them
I (23M) would like to move out from my house within Chennai despite the fact that I'm living in Chennai. Reasons being: - Mom is pressuring me to go to Canada despite the fact that I don't want to. I see good opportunities here and a relatively good network of people in high positions who have offered me a job in their company. - Despite the fact that I moved out from my toxic father 2 years ago, I still feel suffocated in my house with not being able to advance in my career. I started my career in Amazon as ML Data Associate in 2022 which was more of a KPO role and now, I shifted to Digital Marketing 6 months ago with a pay of 22k, got another job from a 3rd party agency for 25k. They said they'll look at my performance for 3 months & increase the pay based on that. - I'm pressurized to get settled early on in my life. Because of this, I feel so numb from the inside with no emotions and also robotic🤖 with little to no interest in sharing what's happening in my life to my family. - I have never ever moved out of my parents house which put me in my comfort zone. My uncle (mama, mom's younger brother) also told me to move out as I'm too deep in my comfort zone. He also said once you move out, you'll figure it out. - I become numb & robotic when I come home. I feel like moving out can help me a lot. I've also seen people who have a healthy relationship with parents after moving out. - I've been feeling lonely from the inside Despite living with my family. When discussing about moving out, my brother said that you'll develop all sorts of bad habits when you are lonely. But I've been lonely Despite living with my mom and 2 brothers and I still never drink or smoke nor do I do any dr*g abuse, nor do I go and hang out with multiple girls just like in cities like Bangalore and Mumbai. I also never visit pubs, I'm extremely frugal, never bought new clothes for myself except maybe like once or twice in the past 2 years. - I'm mentally exhausted living with my family for such a long time that I want to move out. I believe I can improve myself, upskill myself efficiently if I move out. I'm sorry that this post is long but it has to be said. So, can anybody suggest places within 10 - 15km radius of Nungambakkam where I can move in? It would be great🙏 Also, it would be better if people joined but again at your own risk. There are certain conditions if you were to move in with me: - No smoking/drinking habits - Should be a responsible individual. No slacking. - Should maintain a basic personal hygiene (just making sure they don't stink) - Should be able to cook (or the ability to learn to cook) at least their own meals. I don't expect them to cook for me. - Should be earning at least 25k per month. - Rent should be shared on time. - Should be able to handle criticism (I'm a pretty straight forward person. I have a motto - facts don't care about feelings)3
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