Brotherhood

Friendship Hi everyone,I wrote this before but it was removed when I was told that the group wasn't for seeking advice on friwndship/ relationship : I am M 38 , married and my best friends I M 35 married. We have bwwn near friends and brothers since our 20s. We have bwwn through thick and thin together for a long time. Our relationship was such that either of us could call/ message over time. In resent times it's getting harder and harder to ewzh my friend via calls/messages.Somedays it's days or even worse sometimes no reply at all. Whenwver he calls/ messages my reply is immediate and I will do everything in my power to support/ help him. I losty family member last here and there was radio silence from him. Month later I heard from him when I reached out again and he said he didn't reply as he felt everyone was out to get him. Both he and I have some levels of mental illness.. Last week I had another tragedy. After trying multiple times to reach him we spoke. The next day radio silence and then finally messaged saying he was busy over the weekend. Nothing further. Then yesterday a random.mwsaagw from him saying what he was putting me as a reference for his work.... I came to my home town and tried to catch up with him but he said it's too far / busy etc etc.. When is enough and when is time to work away? He is probably my only friend left over the years...