Be content with solitude

This post is for everyone who is in search of love / affection/ any other things that's related to mental health. I have seen many posting things like loneliness, desperate for relationship, and stuffs. I understand its one of the basic need every human needs. But there is a saying- "Don't go to grocery store when you are hungry. You tend to pick the wrong items" Focus on yourself, try to love yourself by doing things you like. I used to be a guy longing for love, ena da vaalkai ithu... enakena yarum ilaye... blah blah. After so many sothanaigal I have reached a point of self solitude, En iniya thanimaye 🎶. Or I can say I am closer to it and I am already feeling better. It was a really hard journey, making myself accepting independent mentally. The reason that triggered me to vent this now is because I slipped a tiny bit from my belief, and it fucked my entire day. Was talking with some random person in this sub, and then she asked for a blind date. My prick brain should've rejected it. But accepted it only because I saw some similarities with that person. On the day of date I msgd to confirm, and that person talks with so much attitude, one word replies, asking for my photo and stuff. At the end, I got so annoyed and gave up on going. Literally told "Naatu paal tea naan oon kita ketena" and ended. So moral of the story, just focus yourself. Some passing clouds like these will come and go, just as distractions. Mental strength and discipline is a mandatory thing for a having peace of mind.