My opinion on chum vs vivian debate

People in this sub are talking avout how chum should have given up this task done this done that , is playing woman card and what not But what about vivian' choices why are people not questioning his choices like he should have done this in a better way handled the situation this and what not Is he right about chum dragging her like that Pride of man matters but hells breaks lose if chum has pride and fighting spirit And if vivian had done this then dont play this fake gentlemen image oh so im so righteous accept it right out if chum is playing woman card then vivian is also playing the gentlemen card after the task doing damage control.