Sitting in a cafe makes me wonder, who are these beautiful women!

I must say I go out and I see beautiful girls everywhere. especially in cafe. I just don't get it. Who are these girls, why in the name of merlin's beard in no way in my outermost circles they don't exist. Heck are they on dating apps? Who are these guys who are getting matched to these girls? Why not me. Even on Jeevansaathi these girls are absent. Where do they come from, where do they go? Stupid 30 years now I am and still no luck!