Where is society heading

So being honest, kind and respectful is considered Foolishness and lying, deceiving, fooling others is Smart because that's exactly what happened with me today, So I went to bank with my aunt today because she needed to withdraw some funds which my uncle has asked for and because my aunt isn't literate ,now my uncle had told me in private a different ammount but then after inquiring the balance my aunt asked to withdraw a different ammount Which was less than what my uncle said now since it was her money i did what she asked, ans then when we returned he was all angry on me and Said some really awful things like I'll never be able to achieve something if I'm always going to be like this