Women victim shaming Atul and banning discussions while still generalizing men

The reality of some women: So, I remember months ago, algorithm started showing me some women writing hateful things about men like, all men are potential criminals and in the process attacking and generalizing men. So, some men resisted, asking them to stop it. And then women replied with more hate or this particular line, "If you're not a criminal, why do you get angry." I did realise one thing though, that most people or women who write these things are doing it for social media attention because look, we all know one thing for certain and that is, the more controversial things one writes, the more impressions one gets. Now, this case of Atul happened and some men have started doing the same and you must be a special level of dumb person to think, that a meme account writing "2x kutai per day for women" is actually a serious threat to women. Also, then there's account calling women, money minded or using even worse word, for that, I want to say, If you're not the wrong woman, why get angry? Now, finally there are some women or sub reddits, reading out some lines of Atul's and victim shaming him. . Now, there is a single mother I knew, whose husband left her and she was really broken & frustrated and one day started beating her child for a very small mistake, venting her anger on the little boy And it was really wrong from her part, but at the same time, I do understand that she was not in the best moment to think clearly. Now, same thing might have happened with Atul, he was away from child for so long, it might even be possible that the woman might have taught the child lies about his father and made him hate his father, and being humans, it's often hard for us to be so tactical or mindful of our frustrations. So Atul wrote a few lines. But some women, are using those two sentences to jump to assumptions and conclusions. Imagine, men doing the same in case of women who has been wronged? Won't it be victim shaming? Then there are some sentences, where there's certain news articles about men choosing violence when they were unfairly treated by system? And again my question is for women? Have you or let's say suppose any victim, never ever thought about violence to get justice? Do you have, such control over your senses that any act or idea of violence just doesn't come inside your heads even when the system continues to fail you? But let's say , Atul was totally wrong in reading news articles where people frustrated by justice system, chose violence, well how it it end in case of Atul? Did Atul choose violence to settle the case? No, but some women can't even accept this fact, so in order to paint him wrong, they don't judge the man by the steps he took, but the thoughts he might have had. And look, you might hate certain individual on social media but that doesn't mean that every person, who likes particular tweets of these individuals is in wrong because by that standard, any person who today say, likes the tweet of any women who might have said conflicting things in past, does not deserve to trusted. Most humans, don't see things in two shades of right and wrong, we judge people based on their opinions, instead of judging their opinions based on them.