Why is it so hard in India to get married for over 30M?

It is such a chicken and egg scenario in some parts and thereafter pure brutal animalistic sadism. These are some of the reasons I have found out with lot of pain 1. Money - you need to work hard to get it but then you cross 30 and then women and their families treat you like \*hit. 2. Looks - you should not be a normal fit human, you have to be a supermodel but accept and get married to a normal girl and if you do not look good or even if you look average, you don't even deserve to get a chance to meet someone 3. Assets - earning over 50LPA too is not enough - amass crazy number of plots or land else you are going to be rejected 4. Bad habits - don't drink? don't smoke? don't eat non-veg - you don't know how to enjoy life, you can't get married. Where are the girls getting addicted to drinks? Annual company parties. And they do not really like to talk to you during those parties - the parties that in 5 star hotels or in abroad 5. Politeness - if you are polite and respectful - they think you are faking it and do not want to take it further with you 6. Age - All women below 31 want men who are younger than them or their age and those above 31 want superhot sexy men only even if they look average or below average - it does not matter 7. Height - I'm average height at 5ft7in. Even 5ft women want someone who is 5ft8in at least. It is almost like people below 5ft8in are not even humans and this has been like 70% reason for me being rejected 8. Vibe - if you don't come across as a crazy hot and sexy person in couple of photos then you get rejected hands down as you don't vibe well 9. Education - if all the above match then if you have not studied from an IVY league educational institute or IIM or IIT or don't work in FAANG then you are rejected 10. Horoscope - crazy philosophies - no proper logic about Kundli milaap or kundli matching and then jumping to reject the candidates. If kundli matching was done so well and in the right way, why are there so many divorces and marriages not happening and so many unmarried people in the country?