Why Is Female Loneliness Never Talked About?

Hi everyone I, 23F and I’ve been struggling a lot with loneliness lately. It’s not just about being single—it’s the overall feeling of disconnection. Friendships feel shallow, dating feels impossible, and most days, I’m just trying to convince myself that it’ll get better. Is companionship too much to ask for? A nice decent guy who also wants a genuine and deep connection with you, but its so hard to find! How come dating can be so hard when its a basic human tendency to want a partner. With the holidays coming up, it’s hitting even harder. This time of year is supposed to be about togetherness, but it’s only making me feel more isolated. I see people making plans, spending time with loved ones, and I can’t help but feel like I’m on the outside looking in. What frustrates me even more is how loneliness is rarely addressed for women. Everywhere I look, it’s all about male loneliness—and don’t get me wrong, I get why that’s important. But no one seems to talk about how women feel lonely too. Society assumes we always have friends or support, but what about women like me, who don’t? Who feel isolated despite trying their best? It’s like female loneliness is invisible because people think we’re naturally better at relationships. But it’s not true. Feeling unseen, unheard, and disconnected hurts no matter your gender. I wish there were more spaces where we could talk about this openly, without judgment or stereotypes. That’s it end of the rant, thank you so much for reading at all. Edit 2 : MEN WHO ARE SAYING HOW ARE YOU LONELY, YOU MUST HAVE GOTTEN SO MANY DM’s. FEMALES SHOULD LOWER THEIR STANDARDS, LOOK AT THE IMGUR LINK IN COMMENTS! Edit 1 : Having too many options is pointless as well when none of them are suitable which is the case that happens to girls. Its like that quote, “thirsty in an ocean, so much water around you but not a single drop is suitable to drink” girls get a lot of guys but these guys are all looking for sex not emotional connection so pointless to connect with them. And at the end even girls have no option. Hence loneliness!