Why do some Indian women act this way?

Ok so this might not be exclusive to indian women , but I see this a lot from women than men . Anytime they will date outside their race , after getting into a relationship , they will start shitting on indian men a lot . They will go out of their way and drag indian men into the conversation when they weren't even a part of it to begin with . So what's the mentality behind that ? Also this post isn't a misogynistic dog whistle , I'm really curious as to why indian women would do this. As it is we get the brunt of the racism online , while women are less susceptible to it , so further perpetuating stereotypes and harmful beliefs don't help anyone . I think you can be in an interracial relationship and be happy about the partner that you have , that you're being treated well in life and that's a good thing. But why do you have to involve us when we aren't even in the picture ? And sometimes they'll go even further so as to promote racist dogwhistles against us and propagate white supremacist ideals . Like I said this isn't exclusive to women , men do this too. Just on the basis of my experiences , I see women do it more .