What is the reason you're not dating right now?

For people who are single (by choice) Do you ever feel like you want to be in a relationship but then you're scared to be emotionally exhausted and hurt, if it ends? And you decide not to date and just marry whoever your parents tell you to? Is there anyone else or just me? People in relationship are you guys happy? (Honest opinions please, my life depends on this) Is it a good idea to get arrange married? (I personally hate that but love marriage ain't possible either as I'm not trying to be in love) Edit:- Why is this world filled up with sadness bro😭 no one wants to date? Is that why good guys are nowhere to be seen (taken/heartbroken)?