What can an average-looking man do to date without being labeled "creepy" or "desperate"?

I'm an average-looking Indian guy (self-confidence level: I’m decent enough, no need to call the cops yet) with no dating history, and hope to get some genuine advice. Dating apps like Tinder and Bumble don’t really feel like my thing, it feels too much like being judged solely on facial features, and that’s not the vibe I want to go for. What are some ways I can put myself out there in real life without coming across as creepy or desperate? I genuinely want to meet someone and build a meaningful connection, but I’m also aware that society can be quick to label guys like me in a negative light if we make one wrong move. How can I respectfully approach women, build connections, and avoid "urged guy" stereotypes?