Tho it's reality but it's more of hypothetical question for you people especially girls please reply . Will you marry this person ?

Suppose you are in late 30s let's say almost 40s you have been hyperfocus on your career and you were particular about type of partner you want that's why you have been single till now. You belong to a tight knit family. You met a person through matrimonial site 7-8 months back you both have been talking and are "technically" just the way you want type of person. But they are little aloof from his family and he don't believe in social relationships. They think they have been borned in wrong country should have been born in foreign countries where you see your parents twice a year scenario are normal. This being said you have talking and meeting regularly for 7-8 months and decided to get marry. But this person hasn't met your family. This person claims "don't like people" so would runway if there are large number of people. They have your parents once that too outside in a restaurant as they believe they might get evil eye or something they met only because you wanted to go to his family for festival. This person never talked to your parents this whole nor does their parents talked to your parents. But you have been involved in their family activities. Your parents want big marriage as they have been waiting for so long but your partner don't so you fight against your parents for smaller wedding and your partner keep rushing the marriage maybe to avoid any chance of big wedding. This person came to meet your parents again but they came unannounced and just told your parents that these date is final for wedding and leave Will you marry this person?