This Atul case got me thinking

This Atul suicide case really shook me. At first, I was devastated and vented through 3-4 posts saying things like "never get married" and criticizing the current system of marriage. However, one thing I consciously avoided—and have been reflecting on—is blaming women as a whole. It’s not fair or wise to say "a woman killed her husband." Instead, it’s more accurate to say *a bad person* took someone’s life. Atul’s wife was, undeniably, a terrible person—a "Satan" of a person. From everything she said and did, does she seem to you like a caring, motherly figure? Absolutely not. She’s the equivalent of a male rapist—someone who does not and should not represent all men. Similarly, her actions don’t represent all women. The system of marriage and the laws surrounding it, however, are clearly flawed and in dire need of reform. For instance: - If a woman is financially independent and working, there should be no maintenance obligation. These issues require serious discussion, but for now, let me address something else. To the women who are saying, "This happens to us all the time. We’re raped and burned, so what’s new?"—I get it. I understand that women in this country face unimaginable pain and injustice. But right now, we’re grieving. We’re in emotional turmoil over this tragedy. All we need from you at this moment is a little empathy, a little acknowledgment. It’s not a competition of who suffers more. Instead of comparing, just saying, "Yes, this was wrong, and steps must be taken to fix it," would go a long way. When there’s a rape, many of us men stand with you, protesting hand in hand. Crimes have no gender, but we expect better from each other as human beings. Let’s not allow crimes and tragedies to strip us of our humanity. P.S Guys UNDERSTAND THE POST, " SHE WAS A WOMEN! " But " SHE DOESN'T REPRESENT ALL WOMEN! " And her gender isn't the sole cause for the crime here, a stupid law system is. She was a bad person, and the same goes for Men who rape, maybe if she had been born as a male she still would have done some vile and horrifying crime! Like if you are a Guy I am sure you wouldn't like hearing all Men are Rapists when that shit happens, so this isn't a Tit for Tat opportunity! Punish the criminals but don't generalize the 99.9 percent for less than the 0.1 percent. This goes for both Rapists and Women who use coercion in divorce.